HAPPY NEW YEAR,MAY YOU PROSPER IN 2019. WHEN IT RAINS, MAY IT POUR!
2018 was a year that I completely tried to improve myself and to be the very best that I could be . More of Blessings meaning more lessons because where much is given to you then much is expected from you but lessons must be learnt. I am literally typing this not so sure if I got my grip but polaroid by Jonas Blue is playing in the background so briefly I will pinpoint my lessons.
- ALLOW GOD TO FIGHT YOUR BATTLES.
In the beginning of the year I was one normal human being with void emotions and lost soul. It’s like a losing hand or a root growing in concrete but I have never seen anyone who believes in God have a losing end. The catch is you pray consistently about it but never complain because we live by hope and every second of your breathe counts , till then, God isn’t done with you yet. So Allow God to fight your battles.
- THE BIGGEST RISK OF ALL IS NOT TAKING ONE.
Be bold enough to know when enough is enough and when to leave. Be bold enough to travel solo and while at it, enjoy, learn, let lose and be content. I went for 6 solo travels and the joy and fulfillment that comes with it is exuberant. Meet new people and learn new cultures. whatever your heart desires, quench it . it succeeds celebrate and if it fails celebrate because at least you tried. its never that serious.
- DO MORE THAN JUST EXIST.
yes routine is lethal and so are clicks. Most people are born original but die as someone else’s photocopy. Be the original you because everyone else is already taken. Read more and if you’re not much of a reader, kindly read my blogs and follow. I made sure that I read a book or two in a month as it is part of exploring. Life is more than work ,home and happy hours.
- SELF IMPROVEMENT.
Whoever makes resolutions, follow them to the latter. Whoever doesn’t believe in resolutions , improve on what you already started. If you want to travel more, do it as I recommend keitan safaris. Point is, never get stuck. crawl if you must but whatever you do, keep moving. If you are in the same spot with the same character like you were last year, then there is a problem as you should be better.
- no one can make you inferior without your consent.
Master this art of not allowing people to step on you. Stand up for yourself and they will treat you accordingly because you teach people how to treat you. I have personally learnt that I never allow trash thrown at me and I walk away from anything that’s toxic to me. You alone are enough and at the end of the day, God has got you. It may be ego but crap I don’t allow.
- PAIN DEMANDS TO BE FELT.
There are always going to be challenges in life and there are seasons of joy and pain. Pain demands to be felt so feel it , heal and proceed. Everything will be alright in due time. God didn’t say it would be easy but He promised to give you strength If you seek Him.
- LOVE COMES WHEN YOU LEAST EXPECT IT.
Someone just told me that love is a gamble. If you win then good for you, if you lose then you learn. If it comes, let it and if it goes, let it. Love cannot be limited and quantified so give it your all and if they don’t reciprocate it, let them go. love, love some more, love again and love again and again.
- THE EVIL EYE IS REAL
Do you ever wonder why your mum will ask “how many people have you told this and that?” . The more you expose your life to people, the more stagnant you become. Not everyone is happy for you and not everyone you surround yourself with is for you. Stay low key sometimes. Observe couples who do very big weddings as compared to those who do it very simple…I know you got the answer. This I learnt the hard way.
- GIVE TIME, TIME.
Chill, observe and be silent. It is as simple as that. Whoever wronged you, whoever hurt you give it time and it always bounces back to them but give it time. karma is a bitch served when its cold . Whatever is yours, will always be yours as long as its written but give time, time.
This year, we are all going to turn a year older. Most people will get married, some will get babies, some will get promotions, some will change jobs, some will fly, some will proceed with their higher education like masters and some will still be exactly where they were last year. Whatever you decide, be happy because in each year, we pass our death anniversary dates hence life is short. Have fun, let lose and be bold. Never compare yourself with anyone else much as it’s only human because we all have our paths . Hang in there and your creator knows but you got to believe. kutangulia si kufika.